Jamie Oliver reveals how he keeps romance alive with wife Jools after 18 years of marriage

Hes the countrys best-selling cookbook author and one of TVs most popular chefs. Away from the screen, Jamie Oliver runs a restaurant empire and is also a busy dad to five children – Poppy, 16, Daisy, 15, Petal, 10, Buddy, nine, and two-year-old River – with wife Jools, 43.

Woman sat down with Jamie Oliver, 43, at his London HQ for a chinwag about being a so-called weekend dad and 
his worst habit…

I dont think that being a weekend dad 
is that weird. Actually, I think Im a full-time dad, its just that Im physically active with the kids at the weekends and the holidays. Probably 95% of Britain is the same – I dont know how many dads or working parents are home for dinner five days a week. In my company we 
have flexible hours for staff and were very conscious of parents needs, but because Im the boss Ive got a few more things to do. I go in quite early and finish late most days. Sometimes, the kids drop in – my daughter Poppy came into the office to open her GCSE results. Id never seen her smile like that.

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Its hard to think up ways to be romantic with Jools after 20 years. Its hard to get Jools away from home, so 
I was pleased I managed to whisk her away for a couple of days for our 18th wedding anniversary in July. I took her to our little 1950s riverboat on the Norfolk Broads – its a Swallows and Amazons number and very romantic and 
quiet and peaceful. Its tough to keep thinking up new gifts to give 
her, but I bought her 
a necklace with a nice message on it, which 
she loves, and I had 
a pair of custom retro trainers made for her by an artisan shoemaker around the corner. I designed them myself and I hope it was a romantic gesture.

I like watching Jools get older. I love 
her more now than I ever have before. 
I feel like my love widens and Im quite enjoying her evolving as a woman, growing older. I like it – her wrinkles have been earned. There has been 
a lot of chaos in the past 20 years, but 
she keeps the home very normal and stable, and thats a lovely thing. Were yin and yang – shes very homey and family-based and I grew up in a pub – I love going out and meeting people and that is not 
her idea of fun. She gets a lot more stressed than me and I calm her down and give her strength. But we come together over parenting; our approaches are very similar.

We use an app to keep track 
of our kids whereabouts. The older girls, Jools and I are all 
on an app called Life360, which means we can see exactly where everybody is and the route theyve gone. So if one of the girls says, “Im going to Camden Town” and 
I can see theyve gone to Reading, then we have a problem. They can check on me, too, and see how fast Im driving. Its brilliant.

If my worst habit is snoring, I cant be 
that bad a husband! Jools whacks me 
a lot in the middle of the night to shut 
me up. But the other night I woke up and Jools was really punching me over and 
over and I said, “Jools, Jools, what are 
you doing?!” She said, I was just checking 
if you were still alive. She was actually 
in the middle of a dream where I was dead. We both woke up a bit then and laughed 
and laughed and laughed.

My dyslexia never held me back and so 
Im not worried that Petal and Buddy 
both seem to have it. Buddy is not so much slow in words and reading, like I am; his processing speed is a little slower, so he 
gets things if he has a bit more time, but 
hes a really bright kid. We think Petal 
has dyscalculia, which means that shes 
not great with numbers and patterns. 
I dont know if they inherited it from me, 
but I absolutely believe that every single child has the capacity to find their inner purpose and genius in spite of it. When I went to my kids school parents evening, the focus on doing as much as they can for the children blew my mind – it bore no relevance to my childhood. Im proud Ive been able 
to give that to my kids.

✱ Jamies cookbook Jamie Cooks Italy (£26, Michael Joseph) is out now.

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